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According to former Governor Frank Keating…

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Former Oklahoma governor: Lack of rigor in classroom a recipe for problems
BY FRANK KEATING • Published: September 5, 2014
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Frank Keating
But then, standards were watered down. The teachers union took over the wheelhouse. We sank nearly to the bottom of the U.S. Chamber of Commerce state academic rankings. Today, we appear more zealous in fighting ideological battles than in educating our children. The Chinese must be chuckling. We reject No Child Left Behind, a construct of conservative George W. Bush, and then reject Common Core, a construct of state governors but one soiled by the intervention of the liberal Barack Obama.
Now what? Treading water is not an education policy. The Legislature should demand a four-by-four curriculum (we should add the fourth year of math), stop social promotion and require that schools educate to the toughest, highest international standards. We should pay for the greatest teaching talent and get them in the classroom as we do at the Oklahoma School of Science and Mathematics.

“Feel good” is not a diploma. We may think we educate our young for jobs and for tomorrow, but we don’t. Academic success and job creation will only come from rigor, rigor and more rigor. You can’t win a race without sweat and grime and grind. There is no other way.

Keating, a Repubican, served as Oklahoma governor from 1995-2003.

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MARCH 3, 2014 · 12:19 AM

A Parent’s Voice for Public Education

I am a parent. 

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My daughter is in preK and embarking on her school years.  That means that I am embarking on my journey as a public school parent.  It can be a scary place, wanting the best for my daughter but not always knowing what I can do to support and help her school.  In Oklahoma, public education is in a scary place.  It is a new passion of mine to do what I can to make the next 13 years of my daughter’s school career the best it can be.  It is painfully obvious that the majority of our elected officials don’t seem to be listening to educators these days…. but they need to start listening to parents.  

As a parent, I believe in the power  and importance of public education.   A community’s future depends on the education of its citizens. Maybe 100 years ago, public schools had a different role than they do today.  But in our global society, public schools serve the needs of all students and families.  For many students, school is the safest place they can be and the best hope to build a future for themselves.

Public school can and should be:

  • a place where students feel safe, challenged, and encouraged
  • a place where students are able to make mistakes and be creative
  • a place where they learn how to get along with their peers but also how to work collaboratively with them, even when they disagree or don’t get along
  • a place where students are exposed to not only the foundations of reading, writing, and arithmetic but also exposed to innovative ideas and engaging learning opportunities in all content areas
  • a place where parents, communities, teachers, and administrators work together, striving for the best interest of all students but also the best student of each student

Currently in Oklahoma, the state aid for schools is approximately $3,000 per pupil.  That breaks down to about $17 a day per pupil.  Last time I checked, most teenage babysitters charge $15-20 an hour.

I am sure there are a ton of complicated formulas and other factors, but as a parent, I am not an expert in school funding.

Can someone help me understand why we currently have the lowest per pupil funding in over 5 years?   Or why Oklahoma remains the lowest in our regional per pupil funding?  Or why although we have steadily increased in the number of students in our schools, we have had the highest percentage of education funding cuts in the nation?

Since I don’t understand, I have had several conversations with administrator and experts in local schools to help me understand.  The only answer we can come up with is that Public Education is not a priority for our elected officials.  Or put more simply, the education of our states future generation and future leaders is not a priority for the majority of men and woman we have elected to represent us at the Capital in OKC.

Our school superintendent and Governor like to blame the cuts on everything from the recession to ObamaCare.  They do brag that even in the midst of a struggling budgets, they increased the public school budget last year.  What they fail to mention, is that because OK had an INCREASE in the number of students in the public schools there was a DECREASE in the per pupil funding, even with the increase budgeted by the legislator in 2013.

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I know that throwing money at schools is not the answer, but as a parent, I am pretty sure that this great state can do better than 17 Dollars a day.  Yes,  local taxes and federal dollars supplement state aid, which increases our per pupil funding overall to about $8,500.  But even with those added, OK is still lowest in the region by at over $1,000 per pupil.

As parents, we can ALL tell our stories and urge our legislator and state leadership to start limiting or removing some of  the unfunded, underfunded, and harmful (based on years of educational research) reforms like:

  • The retention clause of the Reading Sufficiency Act.  Although this law has been in place for almost a decade, in 2011 the OK legislature added the retention clause that removes a parents voice from the process.  In all of its years of implementation, RSA has never been fully funded.  This year, schools received about 30$ per qualified student to implement one of the most overreaching reforms our state has seen.  Supporting and intervening as a student learns to read it vital.  It my daughter struggles over the next few years, I know it is my job to work with her teachers to support her however I can.  Retention is not an evil thing.  But a crucial part of making retention successful is parental support and by-in.  RSA can work, but it has to involve all parties without high stakes.  By the way, I have yet to ever see any article that shows me that a standardized test is even a good way to improve my child’s learning.  Still not convinced, ask a third grade teacher how they feel.
  • High Stakes End Of Instruction tests for High School students.  Colleges don’t care if students pass these exams.  Neither do vo-techs, welding schools, beauty colleges, or any other job or post high school training that our high school grads will face.  No one cares.  All the EOIs seem to do is stress out students and teachers, give the SDE data to crunch, and make some students feel like dropping out might be their best option.  Companies and colleges want employees who can think, problem solve, adapt, and communicate clearly.  How many EOIs test those skills?
  • TLE and other teacher evaluation systems based on test scores and faulty value added calculations.   People are complex beings.  Schools are complex communities.  Teacher evaluations, based on test scores and value added models, do little to harness the complexity that is a student or school.  It doesn’t improve student achievement, but it does drive good teachers out of education.
  • A/F School Report Cards.  As a parent, this is probably one of the most embarrassing things about public education in Oklahoma.  It is painfully obvious to almost every parent I have talked to that this system means nothing.  A parent knows how their child’s school is doing.  If they don’t, I am sure all public schools would welcome a parent to come spend time in the building, see what is going on, and get involved in their child’s education.  All the A/F Report Card does is label and degrade schools by things that are out of their control.  It is a fickle system and even that coveted A’s could easily be B’s or C’s next October based on the faulty statistics used.  This recent article in the Tulsa World is a great example.
  • Tax Cuts!  Budgets are tight statewide and tax cuts are not the solution that is best for Oklahoma.  Many departments are facing cuts again this year including DHS, Prisons, Mental Health, and transportation.  The tax cuts proposed this year will net less than 80$ in the pocket of the 80% of Oklahomans.  Tax cuts are not proven to stimulate the economy or provide for lasting growth.  OK Policy does a great job of breaking down this issue and how it impacts Oklahoma.But…What can we as parents do?

Contact your legislators.  Most of our elected officials DO listen to citizens.  But remember, they also hear from paid lobbyists from mega-corporations who push for laws that profit their bosses.  That is why it is VITAL for citizens to contact them.  There are so many issues that they need to hear from REAL PARENTS about. Remember, most legislators don’t have children in public schools, so they don’t realize what is truly happening within our public schools.  We have to tell our stories!  Go here to find contact information for your legislators. It sounds intimidating, but you can do it.  You can either email or call.  If you are adventurous, get a group of friends together and head up to the capital to chat with them.  You are a tax payer.  They represent you.  Tell them how you feel.

  • Make your message short and sweet
  • Say where you are from
  • Be passionate, but not crazy or extreme
  • Tell why you are against it, how it affects your children
  • No threats, just show your concerns
  • Ask them to propose and/or support laws that fix the problem (taken from a TN Parent Group’s page)

Follow groups like Tulsa Parents Legislative Action Committee (PLAC), Central OK PLACSand Springs PAATCleveland Co PLAC, Pontatoc County PLAC,Oklahoma PTA.  We are trying to get as much information out to parents  as possible so YOU can know where YOU stand on the issues and how those issues impact YOUR children and family.    When important bills are being heard in the house or senate, we try to get the word out so you can contact those voting on it.  Last week, parents and educators rallied and as a result, the voucher bill was defeated in committee.  Our voices were heard.  It works.  It is empowering.

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Join with educators at the Capital on March 31st.  Parents voices are IMPORTANT and POWERFUL.  This rally is not just for teachers and administrators.  PARENTS can rally for their children just like teachers can rally for their students.  If you are unsure how this impacts your school, set up a time to meet with your principal.  Ask other parents.  Attend PLAC meetings (like the one in NORMAN on MARCH 4th).  If your school board has voted to send representative teachers instead of the dismissing school for the day, adopt a teacher to represent at the Capital.

Follow education blogs and #oklaed on twitter.  New blogs are popping up everyday.  There are blogs written by parents, principalsteachersretired teachers, and even anonymous education experts.

Here is my story.  My reason for speaking out.prekphotosOU30 copy

This is Dani.  She is our world.  She is the child for whom we prayed.  She is half princess, half superhero.  She is creative, loving, inquisitive, and a tad ornery.  As of today, she wants to be a princess superhero when she grows up.  She loves to read books and tell stories.  Frozen is her favorite movie (of course) and she loves the idea that she doesn’t need a prince to be strong.  Now that she is in school, a whole new world is opening up to her.  She was telling me the other day all about the books her teacher is reading to her and the songs she is learning in music class.  It is my responsibility and honor to advocate so her learning experiences in public school are amazing and she can be a Superhero Princess or anything else she wants to be.

What’s your story?

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15 responses to “A Parent’s Voice for Public Education

  1. Angela

    It was literally like you read my mind while writing this blog. We have another great group to join on FB called Oklahoma Parents and Educators for Public Education and our focus is exactly what you have stated. I also have no political background and no experience with school funding but my boys are my world and they are my reasons.

  2. Oklahoma Public schools are one of the main reasons we are choosing to leave the state and head to Kansas. The teachers in Oklahoma are amazing, and with so little to work with its a wonder they accomplish what they do. I say level the whole “system” and start fresh. Don’t put the lower performers in with the higher achievers. It doesn’t make them work harder or suddenly make their parents take a vested interest in their education-it distracts from the students and parents who expect to get a good education and it is exhausting for the teachers who must constantly dumb-stuff down because they are worried about their test scores. Get some teachers at the Capitol and let the “boots on the ground” make the decisions for once. I wish you all good luck and hope you can pull it off!

  3. Angela

    Instead of “rallying” and constantly griping about how your kids don’t have enough and aren’t being provided with everything you think they should, here’s a thought– get a job!! Get 2 jobs. Why can’t YOU (the parent) donate to the school instead of DEMANDING that the government increase the funding. It’s not the government that’s paying more for your kids, it’s the childless, hardworking taxpayers that get to pay for your child deductions, EICs, schooling, food stamps, clothers, daycare, etc. Now you want us to pay more so your kid gets more money for school. Stop having kids if you can’t afford them and stop bitching that the money coming in is not enough. You had the kids, why can’t YOU care for them? Sitting on your ass at home saying that your job as a stay-at-home mother is so hard. Get a job and pay for your kid to go to private school.

    • Darlene Harmon

      Do your children go to private school? If so, great! I’m happy you can afford it. But there are those of us who can’t! Just because I can’t afford a private school doesn’t mean I shouldn’t afford to raise a child. And whether I choose to be a stay at home mom and raise My child myself instead of paying someone to do it isn’t your business. My child and others are entitled to an education whether public or. Private.

    • JaeDub

      Angela, you obviously don’t understand how this works. These laws affect every child – public, private, or home schooled. Students aren’t exempt from these tests or common core by being in private school. If you are going to leave cowardly, hate filled comments, educate yourself first. Taxes are used for schooling our children. They will be running our country and filling our economy in our old age. Wouldn’t you want them to receive the best? Or just leave them behind so they can run the US into the ground?

    • Brian Mottinger

      YOUR A IDIOT.. there is a 99% chance I make more than you and pay more in taxes than you and I do not agree with the states outlook on child education. .. not everyone who complains is poor.. idiot.

    • Angela, thank you for your input. Rest assured, I have a job. I am also a full time graduate student. And a full time wife and mother. I am a year away from a doctoral degree. Not only do I care for and raise my own daughter, my husband and I are foster parents who help care for children whose own families cannot care for them for a variety of reasons. Again, I appreciate your input and wish you all the best.

    • Some people like the selfish, self-serving, hypocrite above really makes my blood boil. I don’t know who you are (Angela from March 3 @ 4:15p.m. above) but the parent (Nicole) who wrote this article is spot on.

      The article expresses what many feel and would love to say. The article presents the many obstacles that we as educators are facing every day. The reason you teach isn’t for the money, it’s because you love children. You teach because you have the desire to help make their life rewarding and never think of the obstacles as a teacher you have to overcome to help those children succeed. Most teachers also have children and see the value of an education not only for their own but that every child deserves to have a free public education!! Why? Because they can then become a tax-paying citizen with a great job and bright future… obviously because they have the knowledge and skill to contribute to our society.

      People like you (Angela from March 3 @ 4:15p.m. above) should pay back the things you have became accustomed to provided by tax dollars of parents who work!! Because you obviously do not have children, or if you do… you send to private schools. That’s ok.. great, you have money to do that.. your choice. Let’s see how fast you cry ‘wolf’ if you ever need a firefighter, a policeman, a first responder, hey… why don’t you even start constructing your own roads to drive on so you don’t have to associate with the ‘common’ folk.

      I for one will be at the Rally… I for one am an advocate for our kids. My children have been my life and would do anything for them. But, I won’t be around forever and they have to be independent and make a life for themselves. An education is the road to their success. I don’t mind working and doing my share and have for over 30 years in the classroom. Our kids, our families, our communities, the underprivileged children who we see that didn’t choose their circumstance…. are worth fighting for!

  4. Nelda True

    At one time I planned to become a teacher. I attended college in OK, however, I changed my mind and went into another career. Parents have to be involved at the school level, but they also have to be involved at the state level. Know who is running for the state offices. The governor, education director, your state legislators are all key to getting the best school funding passed. Do research on what these people have actually done in their life. Pay attention to not only what they say, but more importantly, what they do. They’ll say anything to get your vote, but have their actions backed that up. When you do find a candidate that you feel you can trust, work for that candidate. It’s hard work to get elected. I see so many people complaining, however, when I point out they need to get involved in the campaign, they balk. No time, not interested in politics. You better get interested. Don’t vote by political party. That’s what has been happening far too long in this country. I wish you the best.

    • “Don’t vote by political party” So True!! This has always been one of my biggest frustrations with Oklahoma voters! Many candidates depend on straight party voters to get elected. I am all about getting information out to parents so they can make informed decisions and begin to see the danger in straight party line voting.

      That being said…the June primary is CRUCIAL, regardless of your affiliation. Republicans and Democrats alike have to get out and vote this Summer.

  5. I would like to introduce myself by saying that I am a third grade teacher in Oklahoma City. This is my first year as a contract teacher, but it is not my first year with third graders. I am glad to see you advocating for parents and their responsibility to contact legislators. It is what every school needs. However, I would like to challenge two of your points. First, the Reading Sufficiency Act is important and valuable. Going through college, I thought it was the stupidest thing our state had ever conceived, and I had no desire to be a part of it, but my experiences this year in a low-income school have shown me differently. Teachers tell parents from kindergarten that a child needs to be retained because of developmental delays, but the parent refuses to allow it. The child continues on with below-average grades and abilities until upper grade teachers give up on him. I am disappointed that parents have lost their say in this case, but I have students who are reading two years below grade level and their parents do not want them retained. They might get a D on their report cards to pass, but they can’t be successful in fourth grade. The RSA is an exit exam for third graders. Because of this, I hope it will reduce the negative stigma of retention and encourage parents to truly consider why a teacher is telling them to retain their child in earlier years. I do believe that we should have stricter entrance regulations for kindergarten, though, to prevent students from entering school before they are developmentally ready. I truly hate high-stakes testing, and I think children can prove their reading capabilities through more reliable methods, but I see this as a logical step. We have to do something to stop pushing students through the grades. Secondly, the Rally on March 31st is illogical. Yes, it is a great way – and one of the only – to reach our legislators. However, school districts cancelling school for the day are being unreasonable. We need that instructional day. It is also just before the testing period. I don’t want to take a day off from my students, and I won’t. I was in 6th grade in this same district when my teachers took a day off for the same reason. The only result: a day of no school and furious parents. Nothing changed. Finally, I agree that EOIs are unreasonable and unnecessary. I agree that the school report cards are unreliable and degrading. However, I see that there are too many education politicians and not enough people willing to figure out how children learn best. That’s the real problem with Oklahoma education, and that’s the real reason parents and teachers need to speak up.

    • Thank you for your input. I love speaking with teachers. I agree RSA was and is valuable. It has been in law in Oklahoma for more than 10 years. Maybe I should clarify, it is the automatic retention and high stakes changes to RSA that were made in 2011 and the fact that this program has never been fully funded that I see as most needing to change.

      I too am torn on the idea of canceling school for the rally on the 31st. Although I don’t think it is illogical. Administrators and teachers in Oklahoma have lost their voice. Elected officials are not listening to them. I see the rally as a way for them to do something… anything. Personally, I like the idea of schools sending representatives. Correct me if I am wrong, but many schools that a certain amount of “advocacy days” built in to their contracts with local chapters of OEA.

      You said: “I see that there are too many education politicians and not enough people willing to figure out how children learn best.” SO true!!

      Thank you for all you do for your students!

      N

  6. Stephanie Crawford

    As an educator, I appreciate your support. I want to return the favor. Below are some errors I found on your site. I wish you well in your efforts to raise your beautiful daughter.

    As a parent, I believe in the power and important (should be importance) of public education. A community’s future depends on the education of it’s (should be its) citizens… For many students, school is the safest place the(y) can be and the best hope to build a future for themselves.

    Or why although we have steadily increased in the number of students in our schools (,) and (delete and) we have had the highest percentage of education funding cuts in the nation?

    of our states (state’s) future generation

    30$ per qualified student to implement one of them (the) most overreaching

    employees that (who) can

    There are so many issues that they need to hear (about) from REAL PARENTS about (delete about and add ,)and remember, most legislators don’t have children in public schools,

    • Thanks! I will fix those mistakes. I looked over it several times, but I should have just saved it and looked at it again after letting some time pass. I am terrible at reading what I think is there instead of what is actually on the paper when I edit too soon after I finish it.

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Here’s What Dr. Seuss Can Teach Every Adult About Life (originally posted by The Huffington Post)

Here’s What Dr. Seuss Can Teach Every Adult About Life

 
Posted: 03/02/2014 9:15 am EST Updated: 03/03/2014 9:59 am EST

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Happy birthday, Dr. Seuss! Theodor Seuss Geisel (yes, that’s his real name) was born today in 1904. His timeless books were celebrated not only for their inventiveness, but for the messages that they bestowed upon their readers.

Dr. Seuss claimed not to imbue his stories with morality on purpose. In fact, he described himself as, “subversive as hell.” Still, the author’s political beliefs are apparent in The Lorax, an environmentalist story, and The Butter Battle Book, which serves as a metaphor for the arms race. But some of Dr. Seuss’s best advice comes from his subtler, goofier stories.

Here are five things Dr. Seuss’s classic books can teach every adult:

1. If your present situation is wearing you down, don’t lose optimism about the future.

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Oh, The Places You’ll Go! is perhaps Dr. Seuss’s most inspiring book of the bunch, as it instructs readers what to do in times of turmoil. It’s too easy to get bogged down in the details of day-to-day life; this book can be a refreshing means of regaining perspective, and reminding yourself that the world is wide, and opportunities abound.

And when things start to happen,
don’t worry. Don’t stew.
Just go right along.
You’ll start happening too.
Oh, The Places You’ll Go!

 
 

2. A little kindness goes a long way.

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The Grinch is a classic example of a character who is grumpy merely because he’s often left out. It’d be easy to blame his bad attitude on his circumstances rather than including him in festive activities. Instead, ceasing to shun him helped the Grinch grow into a kinder version of himself.

It could be his head wasn’t screwed on just right.
It could be, perhaps, that his shoes were too tight.
But I think that the most likely reason of all
May have been that his heart was two sizes too small.
How the Grinch Stole Christmas

 
 

3. Hold fast to your beliefs, even in the face of ridicule.

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When Horton from Horton Hears A Who hears a voice emitted from a small speck of dust atop a flower, he concludes that the voice is coming from a person. He later learns that the speck of dust isn’t a speck of dust at all, but an entire planet, called Whoville, inhabited by the Whos. Unable to see his perspective, the other jungle animals pick on Horton, but Horton remains sure of himself, and continues to protect the Whos.

“A person’s a person, no matter how small.”
Horton Hears a Who

 
 

4. A little open-mindedness goes a long way.

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The message of Green Eggs and Ham may be painfully straightforward, but it’s still a message that’s worth remembering from time to time. Sam-I-Am urges the narrator to try his bizarre culinary concoction, and even suggests a variety of locations and scenarios to do so (who wouldn’t want to try a new cuisine in the company of a fox?)! The narrator refuses, believing he’ll dislike the dish without ever having tried it. Talk about stubborn!

“Try them, try them, and you may!
Try them and you may, I say.”
Green Eggs and Ham

 
 

5. Fun is good!

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One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish has less of an overt message than many of Dr. Seuss’s other books, perhaps because it is geared towards younger readers. Regardless, it epitomizes the irreverence and fun that all of his stories are peppered with, and in doing so conveys a message of its own, and it may be the most Seussian advice of all: “fun is good.”

Did you ever fly a kite in bed?
Did you ever walk with ten cats on your head?

Did you ever milk this kind of cow?
Well, we can do it. We know how.

If you never did, you should.
These things are fun and fun is good.
One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish

 
 

 

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12 Rules The Best Teachers Live By

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Responding to the release of a new study earlier this month that shows adult Americans rank below average in math, technology, and literacy skills as compared to 24 other developed countries, U.S. Education Secretary Arne Duncan told NBC’s Matt Lauer that the findings “confirm what so many of us already believe, that we have a real state of crisis.” In Florida, a group of parents are proceeding with a lawsuit against the state for neglecting its responsibility to offer an “efficient, safe, secure and uniform high-quality” education to their children. In a recent article in The Atlantic exploring why a whopping 40-50 percent of all teachers choose to quit the profession within their first five years in the classroom, the reasons cited range from a lack of respect and professional support, to being underpaid, overworked, and generally burnt out.

The symptoms of a crippled American education system are evident throughout our daily news cycles. Yet despite the increasing number of obstacles and frustrations with which public school teachers must contend, there continue to be thousands of educators across the country who remain deeply invested in their work and their students, and are finding creative ways not just to subsist within a flawed system, but to flourish. So why is it that some teachers are succeeding so exquisitely while others struggle? This is the driving question behind my new book American Teacher: Heroes in the Classroom, which shines a spotlight on fifty truly outstanding teachers and invites readers into their classrooms to witness their methods, achievements, and impact firsthand. From their example, there is so much to be learned, not just about what it takes to triumph as a teacher, but about the strengths and weaknesses of our national educational system, and about what can be done to make it better.

The brilliant educators featured in American Teacher represent a wide assortment of backgrounds, academic subjects, experience levels, scholastic environments, and student demographics. Yet regardless of their many outward differences, there are certain shared ideas and principles about teaching that can be gleaned from all their profiles. I’ve gathered this group of precepts into the Twelve Rules for Being a True Classroom Hero. Of course there are no absolutes when it comes to defining the formula for great teaching (see Rule #1 as case in point!), but what follows is an excellent starting place.

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Rule 1: Rules are made to be broken.

“Really good education is all about risk-taking and about making a mess; learning is chaotic, right?”Michael Goodwin, English teacher at Concord-Carlisle Regional High School in Concord, MA and founder of the experimental interdisciplinary high school program–Rivers and Revolutions

Rule 2: All for one, and one for all.

“On the first day of school I always tell my students that our classroom is their second home and that our class is an extension of their family. I believe this is just as important as creating an exceptional curriculum.”Alma Suney Park, 6th grade teacher at Eastside College Preparatory in East Palo Alto, CA

Rule 3: Bring your passions into the classroom.

“As a professional spoken-word poet, I try to embody how learning to read and write well serves a purpose beyond the academic. These are critical skills that have the power to open up new worlds of opportunities. My poetry provides an entry point for my students to engage in literature, and empowers them to delve into text when they may have otherwise been hesitant to do so.”Clint Smith, English teacher at Parkdale High School in Riverdale, MD

Rule 4: Never teach to the test.

“Exceptional test scores, brilliant job applicants, and competitive colleges should simply be by-products of a great education, not the sole purpose of it.”Josh Anderson, English teacher and debate coach at Olathe Northwest High School in Olathe, KS and 2007 Kansas Teacher of the Year

Rule 5: Keep it real.

“If you’re willing to take a little bit of a risk with some of your curriculum and experiment with more hands-on experiences with the kids, you can develop programs that are so much better adapted to the needs of the particular students you’re teaching, offering them real ways to apply their learning instead of just passively receiving information.”Daryl Bilandzija, English, ecology, and theater teacher at Odyssey Charter School in Altadena, CA

Rule 6: There is no such thing as an un-teachable child.

“My students are kids just like any other kids. Of course they can learn. Of course they can love school. Of course they can build good relationships. Of course they have a voice. They just need to learn how to use it.”Julia King, math and reading at DC Prep Edgewood Middle Campus in Washington, DC and 2013 DC Teacher of the Year

Rule 7: Necessity is the mother of all invention.

“So here I was, a first-year teacher, with 250 students and a hundred-dollar budget. My solution was bucket drumming. I had the idea to go to Home Depot and buy a bunch of five-gallon paint buckets to use as drums. The kids loved it . . . . This is my fourth year now, and it’s really taken off. The program has created almost a mini-culture of young drummers roaming around Philadelphia’s public schools.”Jason Chuong, itinerant music teacher in the School District of Philadelphia, PA

Rule 8: Produce good people, not just good students.

“The greatest challenge I face is to teach my students to be honorable in a dishonorable world. I want them to be decent even though they are growing up in an environment surrounded by indecency and a media that celebrates awful behavior . . . . My job is to show children that there is an alternative way to live one’s life.”Rafe Esquith, 5th grade teacher at Hobart Boulevard Elementary School in Los Angeles, CA

Rule 9: The future is now.

“Technology has changed my teaching and directly affected my students’ learning. It’s not that I consciously try to plan a lesson that has technology in it. It’s just that it’s woven in. It’s almost invisible.”Jo-Ann Fox, 4th grade teacher at Reidy Creek Elementary School in Escondido, CA

Rule 10: Be the person you want your students to become.

“In order to expect commitment from my students, I must first demonstrate my own commitment to each of them. I take the time to try to understand each of them personally; I make myself available during lunch hours, free periods, and after school . . . . Through seeing that my motivations lie with their success and not my own track record, the students come to their own conclusions about my sincerity. It is after this realization that I begin to see my students, one by one, meeting me halfway.”Jane Klir Viau, AP statistics and microeconomics teacher at the Frederick Douglass Academy 1 in New York City, NY

Rule 11: You can’t do it alone.

“Success does not occur in isolation . . . . It’s only because of the teacher next door, the teacher down the hall. It’s because of the secretaries. It’s because of the administration. It’s because of a whole staff working together to try and make good things happen. The magic formula in education is not hiring the right person. It’s hiring the right group of people, who all want to achieve the same goals.”Jeffrey Charbonneau, physics, chemistry, engineering, and architecture teacher at Zillah High School in Zillah, WA and 2013 National Teacher of the Year

Rule 12: Be a student of your students.

“Teaching reflects you. If you can look at that reflection, you will really learn about yourself. That humbles me and brings me to tears when I talk about it. Because in the beginning, I was scared of what I saw. Kids find the cracks in your armor. It is not that they set out to, they just do. But if you are willing to step back and reflect, you can grow so much. It is a wonderful, unexpected caveat. You think you are going to teach, but boy, do you learn. I have come to understand that, truly, I am my students’ student.” —Jay Hoffman, multimedia, broadcasting, and social media teacher at Frederick H. Tuttle Middle School in South Burlington, VT and 2013 Vermont Teacher of the Year

WHAT TEACHERS (and PRINCIPALS) WANT TO SAY TO PARENTS

Written by Ron Clark and originally published by CNN in March, 2013

STORY HIGHLIGHTS
Ron Clark is an award-winning teacher who started his own academy in Atlanta

He wants parents to trust teachers and their advice about their students Clark says some teachers hand out A grades so parents won’t bother them

It’s OK for kids to get in trouble sometimes; it teaches life lessons, Clark says

Editor’s note: Ron Clark, author of “The End of Molasses Classes: Getting Our Kids Unstuck — 101 Extraordinary Solutions for Parents and Teachers,” has been named “American Teacher of the Year” by Disney and was Oprah Winfrey’s pick as her “Phenomenal Man.” He founded The Ron Clark Academy, which educators from around the world have visited to learn. This article’s massive social media response inspired CNN to follow up with Facebook users. Some of the best comments were featured in a gallery.

(CNN) — This summer, I met a principal who was recently named as the administrator of the year in her state. She was loved and adored by all, but she told me she was leaving the profession. I screamed, “You can’t leave us,” and she quite bluntly replied, “Look, if I get an offer to lead a school system of orphans, I will be all over it, but I just can’t deal with parents anymore; they are killing us.”

Unfortunately, this sentiment seems to be becoming more and more prevalent. Today, new teachers remain in our profession an average of just 4.5 years, and many of them list “issues with parents” as one of their reasons for throwing in the towel. Word is spreading, and the more negativity teachers receive from parents, the harder it becomes to recruit the best and the brightest out of colleges. So, what can we do to stem the tide? What do teachers really need parents to understand?

10 things parents and teachers want each other to know:

For starters, we are educators, not nannies. We are educated professionals who work with kids every day and often see your child in a different light than you do. If we give you advice, don’t fight it. Take it, and digest it in the same way you would consider advice from a doctor or lawyer.

I have become used to some parents who just don’t want to hear anything negative about their child, but sometimes if you’re willing to take early warning advice to heart, it can help you head off an issue that could become much greater in the future. Trust us. At times when I tell parents that their child has been a behavior problem, I can almost see the hairs rise on their backs. They are ready to fight and defend their child, and it is exhausting. One of my biggest pet peeves is when I tell a mom something her son did and she turns, looks at him and asks, “Is that true?” Well, of course it’s true. I just told you. And please don’t ask whether a classmate can confirm what happened or whether another teacher might have been present. It only demeans teachers and weakens the partnership between teacher and parent.

Please quit with all the excuses:

And if you really want to help your children be successful, stop making excuses for them. I was talking with a parent and her son about his summer reading assignments. He told me he hadn’t started, and I let him know I was extremely disappointed because school starts in two weeks. His mother chimed in and told me that it had been a horrible summer for them because of family issues they’d been through in July. I said I was so sorry, but I couldn’t help but point out that the assignments were given in May. She quickly added that she was allowing her child some “fun time” during the summer before getting back to work in July and that it wasn’t his fault the work wasn’t complete. Can you feel my pain? Some parents will make excuses regardless of the situation, and they are raising children who will grow into adults who turn toward excuses and do not create a strong work ethic. If you don’t want your child to end up 25 and jobless, sitting on your couch eating potato chips, then stop making excuses for why they aren’t succeeding. Instead, focus on finding solutions.

Teachers vs. parents:

Round two Parents, be a partner instead of a prosecutor And parents, you know, it’s OK for your child to get in trouble sometimes. It builds character and teaches life lessons. As teachers, we are vexed by those parents who stand in the way of those lessons; we call them helicopter parents because they want to swoop in and save their child every time something goes wrong. If we give a child a 79 on a project, then that is what the child deserves. Don’t set up a time to meet with me to negotiate extra credit for an 80. It’s a 79, regardless of whether you think it should be a B+.

This one may be hard to accept, but you shouldn’t assume that because your child makes straight A’s that he/she is getting a good education. The truth is, a lot of times it’s the bad teachers who give the easiest grades, because they know by giving good grades everyone will leave them alone. Parents will say, “My child has a great teacher! He made all A’s this year!” Wow. Come on now. In all honesty, it’s usually the best teachers who are giving the lowest grades, because they are raising expectations. Yet, when your children receive low scores you want to complain and head to the principal’s office. Please, take a step back and get a good look at the landscape. Before you challenge those low grades you feel the teacher has “given” your child, you might need to realize your child “earned” those grades and that the teacher you are complaining about is actually the one that is providing the best education.

And please, be a partner instead of a prosecutor. I had a child cheat on a test, and his parents threatened to call a lawyer because I was labeling him a criminal. I know that sounds crazy, but principals all across the country are telling me that more and more lawyers are accompanying parents for school meetings dealing with their children.

Teachers walking on eggshells:

I feel so sorry for administrators and teachers these days whose hands are completely tied. In many ways, we live in fear of what will happen next. We walk on eggshells in a watered-down education system where teachers lack the courage to be honest and speak their minds. If they make a slight mistake, it can become a major disaster.

My mom just told me a child at a local school wrote on his face with a permanent marker. The teacher tried to get it off with a wash cloth, and it left a red mark on the side of his face. The parent called the media, and the teacher lost her job. My mom, my very own mother, said, “Can you believe that woman did that?” I felt hit in the gut. I honestly would have probably tried to get the mark off as well. To think that we might lose our jobs over something so minor is scary.

Why would anyone want to enter our profession? If our teachers continue to feel threatened and scared, you will rob our schools of our best and handcuff our efforts to recruit tomorrow’s outstanding educators.

Finally, deal with negative situations in a professional manner. If your child said something happened in the classroom that concerns you, ask to meet with the teacher and approach the situation by saying, “I wanted to let you know something my child said took place in your class, because I know that children can exaggerate and that there are always two sides to every story. I was hoping you could shed some light for me.” If you aren’t happy with the result, then take your concerns to the principal, but above all else, never talk negatively about a teacher in front of your child. If he knows you don’t respect her, he won’t either, and that will lead to a whole host of new problems.

We know you love your children. We love them, too. We just ask — and beg of you — to trust us, support us and work with the system, not against it. We need you to have our backs, and we need you to give us the respect we deserve. Lift us up and make us feel appreciated, and we will work even harder to give your child the best education possible. That’s a teacher’s promise, from me to you.

From The Oklahoman…

Oklahoma Education Department delays release of A-F grades

Corrections, changes to controversial grading tool calculations force postponement of letter grades for every public school in state until November
By Tim Willert Published: October 26, 2013

State education officials are delaying the release of A-F school report cards, but the griping about the state-required exercise has already begun.

“If you’re going to come out with this new grading system than come out with a new grading system,” Oklahoma City School Board member Justin Ellis said Friday. “That’s one of the reasons I came on board six months ago. I didn’t think a D was good enough for our city and now it looks like we have quite a few F’s.”

While school district officials already know the grades for their schools, this information hasn’t been released publicly.

“In an abundance of caution, the state Department of Education is going to take additional time to guarantee absolute, 100 percent accuracy of the grades,” state Schools Superintendent Janet Barresi said. “To say this has been frustrating is putting it mildly. The A-F report cards are too critical a tool for parents and communities to accept anything less than quality.”

Letter grades for every public school in Oklahoma were set to be presented to the state Board of Education for certification Tuesday, but problems with calculations delayed the release until sometime next month. The report cards are intended to measure how well schools are teaching their students, but they’ve been a lightning rod for criticism by educators.

“We don’t put much stock in the A-F grades because they don’t represent enough of what goes on in a school house to paint an accurate picture of how good a school is or isn’t,” said Steven Crawford, executive director Cooperative Council for Oklahoma School Administration. “We don’t want to sound like accountability is not the issue here, but we don’t believe it’s very reliable, useful or valid.”

On Thursday, Tulsa Public Schools Superintendent Keith Ballard sent a letter home to the parents of roughly 40,000 students slamming the state Education Department for its handling of grade card calculations. He criticized the department for “dysfunction and ineptitude” in the process.

Barressi apologized

On Oct. 16, the state Department of Education posted the newest grade cards for public schools statewide to a secure website for school administrators to review. But school administrators all over the state reported finding that their school grades had been changed four, five and even six times over the first two days because of calculation errors by state education officials.

On Oct. 18, Barresi issued an apology to educators for “delay and confusion.”

Oklahoma City School District officials reported Friday that school grades have changed six times during the review period, which ends Monday.

Last year, the district got an overall grade of D.

“What I don’t understand with them is why they send out the grade and it is continuously changed. Either tell us what it is or what it isn’t,” Ellis said. “We’re prepared to make the changes to our academics, but give us the grade.”

Fellow Oklahoma City School Board member Bob Hammack said the report cards are unfair because they don’t take socioeconomic factors into consideration.

“It’s weighted heavily in the favor of the suburban schools at the cost of urban and rural schools,” Hammack said. “You tell me how a kid who didn’t have dinner is going to do on that test.”

Approximately 90 percent of 45,631 students who attend Oklahoma City Public Schools, the state’s largest school district, receive free or reduced-price meals.

Reports criticize grading system

According to an analysis by University of Oklahoma and Oklahoma State University researchers released earlier this month, Oklahoma’s A-F school grading system masks the performance of poor and minority students, and in turn, may violate federal requirements for the state’s waiver from the No Child Left Behind Act.

The authors also claim that the most recent attempt to improve the school grading system by the Oklahoma Legislature failed to address the most serious problems with it.

“When letter grades were put to the test with actual student achievement data, it turns out that they do more to hide achievement differences than provide a clear understanding of school effectiveness,” researchers wrote.

The annual report cards, which debuted in 2012, assign a single letter grade between A-F to every public school in the state.

They replaced Oklahoma’s previous school accountability system, which gauged schools with an Academic Performance Index score of 0-1,500.

Contributing:

Tulsa World

The Power of Doing GOOD…Pioneer’s Experience

Feel good moment of the week, month, year at Pioneer Intermediate School:  Several days ago, an elderly gentleman came into the school office with copies of letters from our students.  He was a WWII navy veteran and had recently returned from an Honor Flight to Washington, DC (and yes, he did get to visit the WWII Memorial) and on the return flight had received letters from three of our Pioneer students.  He wanted to talk to the students – for security purposes we usually don’t let “strangers” talk to our kiddos but this time we did.  The students came to the office and met the gentleman who was so kind and grateful for their letters.  As he talked with the kids, he began to cry and so did all the adults in the vicinity who were now aware of what was happening.  As I’m sure you all know, the letters were written to thank HIM for his service to our country but here he was thanking US.  Wow…you never know the power you have  to really help a person unless you are fortunate enough to be a part of a situation like this!  He told the students that he was so moved reading their letters, he cried on the plane!  And he wanted so badly to let these students know what their actions had meant to him that he drove from Midwest City to Noble to tell them!  We are so fortunate for his visit…and he’s coming back to our school for our Veteran’s Day Assembly in November!  Thanks to Linda Remas Barton for snapping photos and to Randy Kersey for including us in the letter writing campaign for veterans who are participating in Honor Flights!  Our letters will now take on new meaning!!

Why Tough Teachers Get Good Results

 

Found this article through ASCD.  It was written by Joanne Lipman and published in The Wall Street Journal on Sept. 27, 2013.  Brings up some interesting ideas and points.  What do you think?

Why Tough Teachers Get Good Results

    By

  • JOANNE LIPMAN

I had a teacher once who called his students “idiots” when they screwed up. He was our orchestra conductor, a fierce Ukrainian immigrant named Jerry Kupchynsky, and when someone played out of tune, he would stop the entire group to yell, “Who eez deaf in first violins!?” He made us rehearse until our fingers almost bled. He corrected our wayward hands and arms by poking at us with a pencil.

Today, he’d be fired. But when he died a few years ago, he was celebrated: Forty years’ worth of former students and colleagues flew back to my New Jersey hometown from every corner of the country, old instruments in tow, to play a concert in his memory. I was among them, toting my long-neglected viola. When the curtain rose on our concert that day, we had formed a symphony orchestra the size of the New York Philharmonic.

[image]Kupchynsky FamilyMr. K began teaching at East Brunswick High School when it opened in 1958.

I was stunned by the outpouring for the gruff old teacher we knew as Mr. K. But I was equally struck by the success of his former students. Some were musicians, but most had distinguished themselves in other fields, like law, academia and medicine. Research tells us that there is a positive correlation between music education and academic achievement. But that alone didn’t explain the belated surge of gratitude for a teacher who basically tortured us through adolescence.

We’re in the midst of a national wave of self-recrimination over the U.S. education system. Every day there is hand-wringing over our students falling behind the rest of the world. Fifteen-year-olds in the U.S. trail students in 12 other nations in science and 17 in math, bested by their counterparts not just in Asia but in Finland, Estonia and the Netherlands, too. An entire industry of books and consultants has grown up that capitalizes on our collective fear that American education is inadequate and asks what American educators are doing wrong.

I would ask a different question. What did Mr. K do right? What can we learn from a teacher whose methods fly in the face of everything we think we know about education today, but who was undeniably effective?

[image]Luci Gutiérrez

As it turns out, quite a lot. Comparing Mr. K’s methods with the latest findings in fields from music to math to medicine leads to a single, startling conclusion: It’s time to revive old-fashioned education. Not just traditional but old-fashioned in the sense that so many of us knew as kids, with strict discipline and unyielding demands. Because here’s the thing: It works.

Now I’m not calling for abuse; I’d be the first to complain if a teacher called my kids names. But the latest evidence backs up my modest proposal. Studies have now shown, among other things, the benefits of moderate childhood stress; how praise kills kids’ self-esteem; and why grit is a better predictor of success than SAT scores.

All of which flies in the face of the kinder, gentler philosophy that has dominated American education over the past few decades. The conventional wisdom holds that teachers are supposed to tease knowledge out of students, rather than pound it into their heads. Projects and collaborative learning are applauded; traditional methods like lecturing and memorization—derided as “drill and kill”—are frowned upon, dismissed as a surefire way to suck young minds dry of creativity and motivation.

But the conventional wisdom is wrong. And the following eight principles—a manifesto if you will, a battle cry inspired by my old teacher and buttressed by new research—explain why.

 

1. A little pain is good for you.

Psychologist K. Anders Ericsson gained fame for his research showing that true expertise requires about 10,000 hours of practice, a notion popularized by Malcolm Gladwell in his book “Outliers.” But an often-overlooked finding from the same study is equally important: True expertise requires teachers who give “constructive, even painful, feedback,” as Dr. Ericsson put it in a 2007 Harvard Business Review article. He assessed research on top performers in fields ranging from violin performance to surgery to computer programming to chess. And he found that all of them “deliberately picked unsentimental coaches who would challenge them and drive them to higher levels of performance.”

 

[image]Arthur MontzkaMr. Kupchynsky helps his daughter with her bow stroke in 1966.

2. Drill, baby, drill.

Rote learning, long discredited, is now recognized as one reason that children whose families come from India (where memorization is still prized) are creaming their peers in the National Spelling Bee Championship. This cultural difference also helps to explain why students in China (and Chinese families in the U.S.) are better at math. Meanwhile, American students struggle with complex math problems because, as research makes abundantly clear, they lack fluency in basic addition and subtraction—and few of them were made to memorize their times tables.

William Klemm of Texas A&M University argues that the U.S. needs to reverse the bias against memorization. Even the U.S. Department of Education raised alarm bells, chastising American schools in a 2008 report that bemoaned the lack of math fluency (a notion it mentioned no fewer than 17 times). It concluded that schools need to embrace the dreaded “drill and practice.”

 

3. Failure is an option.

Kids who understand that failure is a necessary aspect of learning actually perform better. In a 2012 study, 111 French sixth-graders were given anagram problems that were too difficult for them to solve. One group was then told that failure and trying again are part of the learning process. On subsequent tests, those children consistently outperformed their peers.

The fear, of course is that failure will traumatize our kids, sapping them of self-esteem. Wrong again. In a 2006 study, a Bowling Green State University graduate student followed 31 Ohio band students who were required to audition for placement and found that even students who placed lowest “did not decrease in their motivation and self-esteem in the long term.” The study concluded that educators need “not be as concerned about the negative effects” of picking winners and losers.

 

4. Strict is better than nice.

What makes a teacher successful? To find out, starting in 2005 a team of researchers led by Claremont Graduate University education professor Mary Poplin spent five years observing 31 of the most highly effective teachers (measured by student test scores) in the worst schools of Los Angeles, in neighborhoods like South Central and Watts. Their No. 1 finding: “They were strict,” she says. “None of us expected that.”

The researchers had assumed that the most effective teachers would lead students to knowledge through collaborative learning and discussion. Instead, they found disciplinarians who relied on traditional methods of explicit instruction, like lectures. “The core belief of these teachers was, ‘Every student in my room is underperforming based on their potential, and it’s my job to do something about it—and I can do something about it,'” says Prof. Poplin.

She reported her findings in a lengthy academic paper. But she says that a fourth-grader summarized her conclusions much more succinctly this way: “When I was in first grade and second grade and third grade, when I cried my teachers coddled me. When I got to Mrs. T’s room, she told me to suck it up and get to work. I think she’s right. I need to work harder.”

5. Creativity can be learned.

The rap on traditional education is that it kills children’s’ creativity. But Temple University psychology professor Robert W. Weisberg’s research suggests just the opposite. Prof. Weisberg has studied creative geniuses including Thomas Edison, Frank Lloyd Wright and Picasso—and has concluded that there is no such thing as a born genius. Most creative giants work ferociously hard and, through a series of incremental steps, achieve things that appear (to the outside world) like epiphanies and breakthroughs.

Prof. Weisberg analyzed Picasso’s 1937 masterpiece Guernica, for instance, which was painted after the Spanish city was bombed by the Germans. The painting is considered a fresh and original concept, but Prof. Weisberg found instead that it was closely related to several of Picasso’s earlier works and drew upon his study of paintings by Goya and then-prevalent Communist Party imagery. The bottom line, Prof. Weisberg told me, is that creativity goes back in many ways to the basics. “You have to immerse yourself in a discipline before you create in that discipline. It is built on a foundation of learning the discipline, which is what your music teacher was requiring of you.”

 

6. Grit trumps talent.

In recent years, University of Pennsylvania psychology professor Angela Duckworth has studied spelling bee champs, Ivy League undergrads and cadets at the U.S. Military Academy in West Point, N.Y.—all together, over 2,800 subjects. In all of them, she found that grit—defined as passion and perseverance for long-term goals—is the best predictor of success. In fact, grit is usually unrelated or even negatively correlated with talent.

Arthur MontzkaTough on the podium, Mr. K was always appreciative when he sat in the audience. Above, applauding his students in the mid-1970s.

Prof. Duckworth, who started her career as a public school math teacher and just won a 2013 MacArthur “genius grant,” developed a “Grit Scale” that asks people to rate themselves on a dozen statements, like “I finish whatever I begin” and “I become interested in new pursuits every few months.” When she applied the scale to incoming West Point cadets, she found that those who scored higher were less likely to drop out of the school’s notoriously brutal summer boot camp known as “Beast Barracks.” West Point’s own measure—an index that includes SAT scores, class rank, leadership and physical aptitude—wasn’t able to predict retention.

Prof. Duckworth believes that grit can be taught. One surprisingly simple factor, she says, is optimism—the belief among both teachers and students that they have the ability to change and thus to improve. In a 2009 study of newly minted teachers, she rated each for optimism (as measured by a questionnaire) before the school year began. At the end of the year, the students whose teachers were optimists had made greater academic gains.

 

7. Praise makes you weak…

My old teacher Mr. K seldom praised us. His highest compliment was “not bad.” It turns out he was onto something. Stanford psychology professor Carol Dweck has found that 10-year-olds praised for being “smart” became less confident. But kids told that they were “hard workers” became more confident and better performers.

“The whole point of intelligence praise is to boost confidence and motivation, but both were gone in a flash,” wrote Prof. Dweck in a 2007 article in the journal Educational Leadership. “If success meant they were smart, then struggling meant they were not.”

 

8.…while stress makes you strong.

A 2011 University at Buffalo study found that a moderate amount of stress in childhood promotes resilience. Psychology professor Mark D. Seery gave healthy undergraduates a stress assessment based on their exposure to 37 different kinds of significant negative events, such as death or illness of a family member. Then he plunged their hands into ice water. The students who had experienced a moderate number of stressful events actually felt less pain than those who had experienced no stress at all.

“Having this history of dealing with these negative things leads people to be more likely to have a propensity for general resilience,” Prof. Seery told me. “They are better equipped to deal with even mundane, everyday stressors.”

Prof. Seery’s findings build on research by University of Nebraska psychologist Richard Dienstbier, who pioneered the concept of “toughness”—the idea that dealing with even routine stresses makes you stronger. How would you define routine stresses? “Mundane things, like having a hardass kind of teacher,” Prof. Seery says.

My tough old teacher Mr. K could have written the book on any one of these principles. Admittedly, individually, these are forbidding precepts: cold, unyielding, and kind of scary.

But collectively, they convey something very different: confidence. At their core is the belief, the faith really, in students’ ability to do better. There is something to be said about a teacher who is demanding and tough not because he thinks students will never learn but because he is so absolutely certain that they will.

Decades later, Mr. K’s former students finally figured it out, too. “He taught us discipline,” explained a violinist who went on to become an Ivy League-trained doctor. “Self-motivation,” added a tech executive who once played the cello. “Resilience,” said a professional cellist. “He taught us how to fail—and how to pick ourselves up again.”

Clearly, Mr. K’s methods aren’t for everyone. But you can’t argue with his results. And that’s a lesson we can all learn from.

Ms. Lipman is co-author, with Melanie Kupchynsky, of “Strings Attached: One Tough Teacher and the Gift of Great Expectations,” to be published by Hyperion on Oct. 1. She is a former deputy managing editor of The Wall Street Journal and former editor-in-chief of Condé Nast Portfolio.

A version of this article appeared September 28, 2013, on page C1 in the U.S. edition of The Wall Street Journal, with the headline: Tough Teachers Get Results.

The Weight and Burdens of Life’s Stresses

Before you start to read this, I want to make sure that you know that I didn’t write it…stole it word for word from Daveswordsofwisdom.com.

A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half-empty or half-full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired, “How heavy is this glass of water?”

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.”

She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for awhile and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night.

Remember to put the glass down!

I don’t know about you, but I need to start putting that glass down as soon as I get home every day!